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Divorce Attorney in San Diego, CA

Experienced San Diego Divorce Lawyers Serving Southwest California

When going through a divorce, it's important to have an experienced San Diego divorce attorney on your side. A divorce attorney can help protect your rights, ensure that the property is divided fairly, and help you navigate the often-complex legal process. In San Diego, California, there are a number of experienced divorce attorneys who can help you through this difficult time.

If you're considering filing for divorce, or if you've already been served with divorce papers, it's important to speak with an attorney as soon as possible. An experienced divorce attorney in San Diego can help you understand the California divorce laws and your rights, and can provide guidance and support throughout the entire process.

When couples make the decision to file for divorce in San Diego, they are rarely prepared for the complexity of ending a marriage and the magnitude of emotions that surround the process. At Embry Family Law P.C., our San Diego divorce attorney understands that taking the next step can be frightening.

If you’re facing a divorce, you need a legal team of divorce lawyers who can comprehend how stressful this process is and will work on making it less stressful – when possible. In addition, our lawyers understand a divorce case’s emotional and financial responsibility.

Ready to speak with an accomplished divorce attorney in San Diego? Call us today at 619-485-6476 or contact us online.

Is It Worth Getting a Divorce Lawyer?

You should hire a divorce lawyer when you are dealing with specific circumstances. Hiring an attorney would be your best option if you are:

  • Involved in abuse
  • Your spouse is being vindictive or lying about situations
  • There is another attorney on retainer - thanks to your spouse
  • If the divorce includes child or has complicated financial matters

You might assume you can handle your divorce proceedings without legal counsel, especially if you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse are on somewhat civil terms. While it is quite possible to discreetly negotiate the terms of your divorce with your ex-spouse, hiring a divorce attorney is an asset in peace of mind and an additional layer of security guarding your interests in divorce proceedings.

In addition, your San Diego divorce lawyer can provide valuable legal direction, handle your administrative responsibilities, and help you explore alternative conflict resolution if possible. Finally, hiring a divorce attorney implies you will have a professional legal advocate who can confirm that your divorce proceedings are moving in a positive approach.

Please contact our San Diego Divorce Attorney at (619) 485-6476 to schedule a consultation. 

Our Divorce Lawyers in San Diego Provides Effective Legal Representation For Every Situation

No two divorce cases are ever the same. Our San Diego family law attorneys take the time to listen to your story and to craft a plan tailored to your situation.

Our attorneys take a client-centered approach, advocate for our clients, and guide them through the process with care and compassion.

Our San Diego divorce lawyer guides clients through areas of specific concern, including:

  • High net worth divorces – We understand the complexities and intricacies of asset division and reputation protection for couples with high net worth. Our divorce lawyers takes the necessary precautions to maintain privacy and preserve public reputations.
  • Military divorces – Specific processes are in place to help members of the military navigate the divorce process in San Diego. We are experienced in military divorces, understand the intricacies involved in military divorce and pension issues, and can help you get a “stay of proceedings” under the Civil Relief Act.
  • Same-sex marriage and divorce – Now that same-sex marriage is legal at the federal level, same-sex couples may find themselves requiring divorce representation right here in San Diego, CA. Issues related to community property can be complex, as couples may have been together for many years before they got married, acquiring property and investments over the years.

Our San Diego-based divorce lawyers understand the long-term effects divorce can have on your life. The divorce process affects every aspect, including your home, finances, friendships, insurance, and more.

Our compassionate San Diego divorce lawyers ask you to share all the information related to your divorce so that we can develop an effective strategy to help you achieve your goals and minimize the negative impact on your life.

Understanding the Divorce Process in California

Going through a divorce can be a complex and emotional process, especially when navigating the legal requirements in California. Our experienced San Diego divorce lawyers are here to guide you through the entire process and provide effective legal representation for every situation.

Key aspects of the divorce process in California include:

  • Residency Requirements: Understanding the residency requirements for filing for divorce in California is crucial. Our team can provide clarity on the specific requirements and how they may apply to your situation.
  • Filing for Divorce: We can walk you through the necessary steps and paperwork involved in filing for divorce in San Diego, ensuring that all legal requirements are met.
  • Waiting Period: California does have a waiting period after filing for divorce, and our attorneys can explain how this may impact your case.
  • Legal Separation: If you are considering legal separation as an alternative to divorce, we can explain the process and its implications.
  • Divorce vs. Annulment: Understanding the differences between divorce and annulment can be important in determining the best course of action for your situation.

At Embry Family Law P.C., we are committed to providing comprehensive support and guidance throughout the divorce process, ensuring that your rights are protected and your best interests are represented.

What Are Grounds For Divorce in San Diego?

California is an exclusively no-fault divorce state. This means that fault options are not available for a spouse to use when filing for divorce in San Diego, CA. Many states include faults such as adultery, abuse, abandonment, etc. as options for a spouse to use when making a divorce case.

However, for a couple to file for divorce in San Diego, the courts simply need to hear that the marriage is “irretrievably broken”.

One other ground for divorce in San Diego is if one spouse is “mentally incapacitated.” If this is the case, the sane spouse can file for divorce using this reason. However, this method can be more complicated since there is a burden of proof naturally associated with it.

As a result, no-fault divorce is much more common.

What are the Residency Requirements for Divorce in California?

The very first step to a divorce in San Diego, CA, is to file a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage. If either partner has lived in California for 6 months prior to filing and in San Diego, CA for the 3 months prior to filing, the divorce petition can be submitted in San Diego, CA.

Your spouse will be served with the divorce paperwork and has 30 days to respond.

How to File for Divorce in San Diego

The following chronology gives a general idea of how the average divorce process proceeds in San Diego, CA. Your divorce may be a little different because of specific issues between you and your spouse.

  • To start off the divorce, one of the spouses gets a lawyer, who writes up a Petition, a legal document that officially says the spouse wants a divorce (and sets forth certain statistical information.)
  • The lawyer files the Petition with the court.
  • The lawyer makes sure that the Petition is served on the other spouse together with a Summons that requires that spouse’s response.
  • The served spouse has to answer within a certain time (30 days after service). The answer (also called a response) says whether or not the served spouse agrees with the petition. If he or she doesn’t answer the petition by filing a Response, then the San Diego court assumes that he or she agrees with the petition and does not want to litigate the issues. The Response indicates how the served spouse would prefer to deal with the divorce issues.
  • The couple exchanges documents and information on issues such as property and income. By examining this information, the couple and the court can decide how to divide up property and how to deal with child support and spousal support (also called alimony).
  • Sometimes, the couple can voluntarily resolve all their issues through mediation or settlement.
  • If a settlement is reached, the settlement agreement is prepared and submitted to a judge for signature. If the agreement is reached orally in court, the parties will be asked “on the record” in court whether each party understands and chooses to make the agreement legally binding. The written settlement agreement shows the specific terms of what the couple agreed to. Once signed by a judge, it becomes part of the Judgment of Dissolution (also called a divorce decree).
  • If no Response is filed and there is no settlement agreement, then a default is taken against the non-answering spouse. A proposed Judgment is sent to a judge for review. Typically, an informal hearing is scheduled where a San Diego judge will ask a few basic factual questions before approving the Judgment.
  • If the judge approves the agreement or the proposed judgment, he or she gives the couple a Judgment of Dissolution that shows the terms of how the issues are being resolved.
  • If a Response has been filed and the couple does not reach an agreement, the divorce case will go to trial.
  • At trial, attorneys present evidence and arguments for each side, and a judge decides the unresolved issues. Once the judge has reached his or her decision, the judge grants the divorce.
  • Either or both spouses can appeal a judge’s decision to a higher court. But it’s unusual for an appeals court to overturn a judge’s decision with divorce cases. Also, remember that settlements usually cannot be appealed if both spouses agree to their terms.

San Diego Divorce FAQs

Is there a waiting period after filing for divorce in San Diego?

Yes, a couple must wait a mandatory six months after filing for divorce before the court is able to make an official decree.

Are there any residency requirements to file for divorce?

Yes, at least one of the spouses must have state residency for six months or more before the couple is eligible to file for divorce. Additionally, the spouse must have residency in the filing county for at least three months.

Does California have a process for legal separation?

Yes, California does offer the option of legal separation. Learn more about the process for legal separation in California.

What’s the difference between a divorce and an annulment?

Annulments are granted when the court decides that a marriage is invalid, either due to bigamy, the couple being under the influence of drugs or alcohol when the marriage took place, or any number of reasons. While a divorce ends a legally valid marriage, an annulment treats the marriage as if it never happened in the first place.

Unlike divorce, there is no required length of time for residency. You also do not need to be living in California to file for annulment.

Please contact our San Diego Divorce Attorney at (619) 485-6476 to schedule a consultation. 

Seek Reliable Legal Counsel From Our San Diego Divorce Attorney

The entire family law team at Embry Family Law P.C. is here to help you through this difficult time. Our San Diego divorce attorneys help our clients see the future – not just the struggles they are facing now–so that they can make the right decisions for themselves and their families during a difficult time of transition.

Our San Diego divorce lawyer can help you find a resolution that suits your needs.

Contact us online or call (619) 485-6476 to get advice for your situation in a consultation with our San Diego divorce attorneys. 

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